Lake Oswego Matchmakers Reveal Signs You Don’t Love Them

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Ah, it was so beautiful. When you met them for the very first time, it felt absolutely wonderful. You were so full of admiration and certainty. You knew it in your bones that this person was the one for you. You felt like you had finally crossed paths with your true soulmate. They made you swoon with everything they did. They made everything look so easy and feel so incredible. t

Everything you ever wanted in a partner was right there in front of your eyes. You thought, “Okay, this is the love of my life.” That first date, the first time you went out to the movies, the first time the first time they came over to your place, the first time you both spent the night together, they made you feel like your love life was finally making sense.

But after sometime, that spark started to fade away. Many people confuse lust with love and end up realizing that they are not really in love with their partner.

Today, our Lake Oswego matchmakers here at Portland Singles Dating Service are going to show you the top signs you don’t really love them – and it’s time you go your separate ways.

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1. Their needs and wants make things difficult on you.

Everyone has their own needs, and the needs and wants of your partner inconvenience you. They even annoy you. You don’t want to be doing those things to fulfill their needs. You feel like they’re asking for too much from you.

Well, if you loved them, you would go the extra mile to see them happy. So if it inconveniences you and you’re not happy to do things for them, then you’re not really in love. You should feel happy to see them happy, not the other way around.

2. You already want to break up.

In your head, you’ve already decided that this relationship is over. You’ve set boundaries, and if they are crossed, you will not bother making the relationship work. You’re waiting on them to give you a reason to pull the plug on this relationship.

We hate to break it to you, but that’s not what a person who is really in love does in a relationship. While you’re trying to grope in the dark for a reason to end things, you might as well just accept that it’s really because you’re not as emotionally attached to them as you once used to be – or as you mistakenly thought you were.

3. You have no plans for introducing them to your family.

Months have gone by and you’re still in no rush to introduce them to your parents. Worse, you’re totally avoiding it. You have no desire to involve your family in this relationship because you know it won’t last long. You’re not ready, you don’t see it going anywhere with them, and most of all, you’re not really all that into them anymore.

4. You’re too busy for the relationship.

You can’t seem to find time for the relationship. You find yourself regularly making excuses for why you’re always too busy for the relationship. You ultimately believe that you have more important things to do than to spend time with them. You can’t find the passion in your heart for them that would push you into prioritizing them over other things in your life. If you can’t prioritize them and fit them into your life, then you’re not in love with them.

If you see a handful of these red flags in your relationship, then it’s time you face the cold, hard truth: you’re not really into them. It’s best you go your separate ways and spare yourselves the wasted time and energy.

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in Portland, contact our Lake Oswego matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us help you find the one you’re meant to be with!

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.


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